If Samhain is a celebration of the dead, Beltane is a joyous embrace of the living – nature, animals, and human beings. It’s the last spring festival before the summer solstice, and like Samhain, the veil between worlds grows thin. However, Beltane emphasizes the fairy folk (fey and faeries), welcoming their supportive magic into our world.

Fertility is the primary focus, but Beltane also honors love and unity – integral parts of fertility and living life to the fullest. For pagan adults, this translates into celebrating life’s pleasures, including sexuality. For families with children, the emphasis shifts to enjoying fun outdoor activities after a long, cold winter.

Goddesses associated with love, like Venus, Aphrodite, and Oshun, are revered as the lovers during Beltane. The God takes the form of the Green Man, the protector of nature, often depicted as a face peering through branches and foliage. He represents planting, growth, and the rebirth of spring – fitting themes for this festival.

Flowers are the most common adornment for Beltane altars, along with offerings for the fairy folk (milk is said to be a favorite). The colors red and white, symbolizing fertility and purity, are often used for candles, altar cloths, and decorations. Some also weave flower crowns or wreaths, adding to the festive spirit and allure.

Perhaps the most well-known Beltane tradition, the Maypole dance is rich with symbolism. A tall pole adorned with colorful ribbons stands at the center, representing various aspects of fertility, the World Tree, or simply the joy of spring’s return. Couples or groups interweave the ribbons as they dance around the pole, symbolizing the intertwining of masculine and feminine energies, the journey between worlds, or the celebration of life’s renewal.

Some pagans believe Beltane is an opportune time to interact with the fairy folk. Leaving offerings, washing your face with morning dew (considered a fairy blessing), or spending the night outdoors, especially in forests, may attract their presence. However, caution is advised – the fey are known for their mischievous nature and occasional curses.

Flirting, both an action and a mood, is heightened during Beltane. The reasons for flirting vary: attracting a romantic partner, arousing sexual interest, or simply enjoying the playful energy and making others feel good about themselves. The latter resonates most with the Beltane spirit.

To embrace the flirtatious mood, remember the acronym FLIRT:

• F is for Fun: Make laughter your goal.
• L is for Light-hearted: Keep the mood playful and avoid serious topics.
• I is for Interest: Focus your attention on one person at a time, making them feel special.
• R is for Regression: Channel your inner child – tease, banter, and exaggerate expressions.
• T is for Tender: Show care through gentle touches, support dreams, offer praise, and open your heart.

Sending heartfelt “love letters” to influential people in your life can also be a form of Beltane flirting – expressing appreciation and admiration.

Beltane is a time to celebrate life, fertility, and the joys of the living world. Whether dancing around the Maypole, interacting with the fey, or embracing the flirtatious spirit, may this festival fill your heart with gratitude for the beauty that surrounds us and the connections we share.