How to Use the Law of Attraction to Get Your Soul Mate
Love affirmations are one of the best ways to make use of the law of attraction in regards to your love life or finding your soul mate. As you state each love affirmation you are aligning your vibrations with the Universe and working to attract those things which you are affirming. Additionally, according to Tony Robbins, repeating affirmations are a great way to rewire your neural processors or the pathways in your brain so that the subconscious mind begins to accept a statement as the truth.
Why use love affirmations? Why use affirmations at all? Well, love affirmations and indeed any affirmation is designed to give you the power to change the inner conversations you have with yourself. It truly allows a person to send out “good vibrations” which in turn will attract the right type of person and situation to you. It doesn’t matter if you’re a helpless romantic, lonely soul, or just someone that enjoys a little flirtatious fun – love affirmations can have a powerful influence in your life.
The question is – “How does one develop and use love affirmations?”
Step One: Be Specific About What You Want
To get specific about what you are personally wanting for your love life you need to focus your mind on two things. First, you need to know the kind of person you want in your life – I.E. what is your soul mate like? Second, you need to know what kind of person you’ll need to be in order to be attractive to your soul mate.
One of the biggest mistakes a person makes when attempting to use the law of attraction or positive love affirmations to attract a soul mate is they focus on what they want, but they never take a look at themselves and figure out who they need to become in order to be attractive to such a person. As the old saying goes “Love is a two-way street.”
So take a few moments to write down a list of what your soul mate is like. Do they behave in a certain way? Do they like a certain food? Is their hair a certain color? Remember, the more specific you get the longer it may take for the Universe to fulfill your request. A list if about six traits that are most important to you is what you’re looking for here. Whatever you do, avoid thinking about and making statements about what you don’t want! The trick is to always focus on what you do want.
Now that you’ve completed that you need to read down your list and ask yourself what type of person you need to be in order to attract this type of soul mate and in order to have a meaningful relationship with them?
Step Two: Develop Positive Affirmations
To do this you must write your affirmations with the following rules.
- Use the first person perspective
- Use present tense
- Focus on what you’re looking for or wanting in your soul mate
- Focus on the trait you need to develop so that soul mate will be attractive to you
Here are some example love affirmations of a person that believes they need to be confident and ambitious to be attractive to their soul mate.
- I attract confident women because I’m a confident man.
- As an ambitious woman, I naturally attract ambitious men into my life.
- Adventurous partners are attracted by me because I have an adventurous spirit.
Again take note that these affirmations match up with our four rules for creating positive affirmations.
One thing you must understand about any affirmation is that it works primarily on a subconscious level. There’s evidence that the more we talk to ourselves the more we listen to ourselves. Provided this is true, wouldn’t it make more sense to tell ourselves positive as opposed to negative things? Doing so will help open the door by helping you to decide to make conscious changes through the power of the subconscious mind.
Step Three: Say Positive Affirmations Daily
After you’ve taken the time and effort to write your positive love affirmations down, you need to verbally say them to yourself. You can either do this standing in front of a mirror or, like me, you can go for a walk and repeat them to yourself over and over again as you are walking. I’ve found that it typically takes about 30 days for things to really start to change unless you are a very observant person. If you do happen to be observant you may notice aspects of change happening much quicker. The key is to never tell yourself it doesn’t work, rather consistently remind yourself it does work by focusing on and saying your positive affirmations daily. As you say each affirmation, it also helps to try to visualize what you are saying as clearly as possible and make an attempt to feel what it would feel like for that to be what is happening in the moment. If you find yourself smiling, laughing, or feeling great joy as you do this – you know you are headed the right direction!
Consider reading more about what is the law of attraction to gain a deeper understanding of what we are working with here.
Best wishes with your soul mate and love affirmation or any positive affirmation as far as that goes! If you have questions feel free to post them or feel free to share your own love affirmations here.