Your Sun Sign – What You’re Learning
Western astrology, the astrological sign your sun was in at the date of your birth is considered one of the three most important factors in interpreting the natal or birth chart. The other two are the sign the moon was in and the sign that was ascending on the eastern horizon at the time and location of birth. Of these, the sun sign has always been considered the most important.
Many people are taught to read their sun sign from the perspective of “This is what I’m like or supposed to be like.” I personally was not taught to read the sun sign in that manner.
When I was studying and learning astrology, I was always taught that the sun sign represents the most important lessons a person was born into this life to learn. Thus, if one is born as a Scorpio they are learning to be a Scorpio or they are learning Scorpio lessons. They may or may not actually act or behave like one.
In fact, the sign Mars is in at the time of a person’s birth is more of an indication of what a person is actually like. With that being said, here is what I was taught each sun sign is learning in their life.
Aries: Aries is cardinal, positive polarity, a fire sign.
The Aries native is learning to focus on and think only about themselves in this lifetime. If you ever meet an Aries that behaves selfishly, you should smile and remind yourself that they are doing exactly what they are supposed to be doing in this life. Sadly, there are many Aries that forget that this time was meant to be about them learning to focus on themselves.
Aries natives are also learning to be competitive and goal-oriented. Nothing comes easy for the Aries. They must learn to compete and set their standards high if they are to achieve.
Finally, the Aries native is learning to be both physically and mentally active and to exercise both faculties often. Aries need both physical and mental stimulation. Without both of them, the Aries native will usually find themselves falling into destructive habits or patterns.
Taurus: Taurus is a fixed, negative polarity, an earth sign.
A Taurus native is learning to take things slow in this life. They are learning that the best approach is a methodical one. They are learning that anything that matters requires time.
A Taurus will also be learning how to cultivate their organization ability. They will discover that the more organized they are, the better life seems to flow for them.
Learning to find and stay true to their personal values is another important Taurus lesson. Many Taurus people find themselves in situations where they end up being forced to question their values. This life, for them, is all about learning what values are most important to them and then sticking to those values. In this light, the Taurus is also learning that it’s okay to be stubborn and tenacious, especially when it comes to those things which are most important to them.
Gemini: Gemini is a mutable, positive polarity, an air sign.
Virtually every Gemini is learning to overcome communication problems and fears in their life. Most of them are forced to learn this lesson early in life, though for a few the experience follows them all throughout their life. Additionally, it’s not uncommon for the Gemini native to be forced to learn both the importance of talking and listening and when which is appropriate.
Gemini people are also learning to be versatile and to go with the flow. They are discovering in this life the importance of change and not fighting it. They are also learning not to view things in black and white, but rather gray.
Gemini needs to learn in this life both how to focus their mind on their objectives as well as how to handle things on their own. Additionally, many will learn the importance of alone time, introversion, and privacy.
Cancer: Cancer is a cardinal, negative polarity, a water sign.
Cancer is primarily learning how to deal appropriately with insecurity in this life. Most Cancer people will have one or more significant doubts that they are forced to deal with. In the process of doing this, the Cancer native is also learning to know when it’s time to quit and move on as well as how and when to let go of the past. If that wasn’t enough, almost all Cancer born individuals must learn how to handle and deal with the many emotions that they experience in a positive and constructive manner.
Cancer also came into this world to learn about nurturing. As such, the majority of Cancer born people will find that they end up having to take care of another, perhaps many others, at some point and time. Cancer must learn, however, that they are not possibly able to help and care for everyone they come across.
Finally, the Cancer native has come into this world to learn how to put their creative talents and abilities to good use. This is the case when it comes to their home environment.
Leo: Leo is a fixed, positive polarity, a fire sign.
Leo is born into this life to learn about family. They are especially learning the importance of being proud of the things they do and being proud of the people they choose to align themselves with. With this comes the importance of learning about, creating, or embracing traditions.
Leo natives are all here to learn about leadership and being leaders. The sooner they learn to step into the spotlight and embrace leadership roles, the better life tends to become for them. They have to understand, however, that not everyone will act per their personal values and beliefs, but that doesn’t mean those people aren’t important or useful.
For the Leo, a big part of their lesson in this life is knowing when and how to both give and receive love. They are also learning the importance of devotion to either a particular person or cause. This is all on top of the lessons surrounding their creative energy and potential.
Virgo: Virgo is a mutable, negative polarity, an earth sign.
The main and most important lesson that Virgo is here to learn revolves around criticism and discrimination. They are learning just how sharp the tongue can actually be and when to be critical of both themselves as well as other people. Likewise, they are learning to discriminate between what is imperative and what isn’t. With these lessons also comes the importance of learning to avoid extremism in all forms.
Most all Virgos are learning how to think analytically and be logical in this life. They are learning that it’s okay to be doubtful of others and it’s okay to not trust everyone they come into contact with.
Every Virgo comes into this life to learn about service. Learning how to be of service to others and the importance of doing service are key Virgo lessons that can’t be ignored. Likewise, every Virgo will have to deal with health related stuff in life. For some, this may mean becoming a nurse, doctor, or working in a hospital. For others, it may involve having to overcome a major illness or having to take care of someone with such an illness.
Libra: Libra is a cardinal, positive polarity, air sign.
Libra was born into this life to primarily learn to be social and relate to other people. Learning to belong tends to be an important lesson for Libra born individuals too. With all this focus on being social, it’s no surprise that Libra people are also learning to be mediators for and between people.
The Libra native is also learning about personal balance in this life. It’s crucial for Libra to master balance. It’s also imperative for Libra to learn the difference between keeping things in balance and avoiding conflict. When Libra avoids conflict, they typically find themselves being held back.
Many people born into the Libra sun sign will find that they have to deal with one or more co-dependent relationships in their life.
Perhaps the hardest lesson for Libra, however, revolves around learning to disassociate from their emotions. Libra eventually must learn that to make certain effective decisions and to take certain useful actions there must be a disconnection from their feelings and their worry about what other people will think of them. Along with this lesson comes an experience involving learning to think things through before making decisions. Libra must learn, however, that they can’t sit on things too long – that the longer they wait to make decisions the more opportunity they may end up missing out on.
Scorpio: Scorpio is a fixed, negative polarity, a water sign.
Scorpio is known as the most sexual of all signs. In truth, the majority of people born with a Scorpio sun sign will learn about sex, sexuality, sexual taboos, and sexual problems as they live life in the physical world. Sex, after all, is one of the most powerful and intense expressions of emotion that a person can be engaged in. Scorpio is learning that sex is never “just sex,” that there is always something more powerful and deeper going on.
Like Cancer, almost all Scorpio born people will have to learn to deal with intense and dark emotions in a constructive manner. Many Scorpios will learn about abuse and the darker side of humanity at some point and time in their life. They are learning to understand this side of humankind and to still have hope for a better world. They are learning that they bear some degree of responsibility in helping other people and the world to change.
Scorpio must learn not to obsess over things. They also have to master their intuition, take it seriously and determine how and when to use it to both help others and make decisions. Scorpio people are also learning to help other people see their strong and weak points. They are here to master helping people capitalize on their strengths and overcome their weaknesses.
It’s not uncommon for Scorpio born natives to have a knack for business – many are learning about power and control in this life. Many are also learning when and how to keep secrets as well as how and when to manipulate others into helping them achieve their vision of the greater good. Likewise, most Scorpios are also learning that there are times when they must give up control to another.
Sagittarius: Sagittarius is a mutable, positive polarity, fire sign.
A Sagittarius born person is primarily focusing on overcoming prejudice and injustice. At some point in their life, they’ll be called to stand up for another person, the underdog, or those who are just different than them. Additionally, many Sagittarius natives have to learn to see and focus on the positive in the world while not dwelling on the negative.
Sagittarius has to learn when to work hard and when to be lazy. Many Sagittarians struggle with overcoming lazy tendencies as there is a sincere desire to enjoy life and have fun. This desire to enjoy life and have fun is the very same passion that forces them to learn how to be flirtatious and playful with others. Likewise, there is also need to explore and investigate other countries and cultures.
Sagittarius must also learn that it’s okay to be idealistic and philosophical. Most will have to spend extra time in their life in their educational pursuits or be involved in education. Many will be forced to deal with or overcome “father” issues at some point in their life, though not always associated with their own biological father.
Capricorn: Capricorn is a cardinal, negative polarity, an earth sign.
Those people born under the sun sign Capricorn will find that their most valuable lessons will revolve around the importance of family and family connections. Capricorns will need to learn how to separate their work life from their family life. Many Capricorns are meant to learn about the role of parenting in this lifetime, and this plays out sometimes in their day to day life with their friends who they end up learning to “mommy/father” in some manner.
Career tends to be the second most important thing to those native to this sign. Capricorn must learn to dedicate themselves to a career that provides the material and financial support and comfort they need and want in their lives. Additionally, it’s not uncommon for Capricorn people to have to learn from a very early age to be responsible for others.
Respect is a key word when it comes to Capricorn. They are here to learn about the importance of both respect others, especially those above them or that holds authority over them, and they are here to discover how to gain respect and admiration from others.
Capricorns must also learn that it’s okay to want and seek power and prestige provided they don’t try to cheat the system. These individuals must learn to follow and obey the rules else they tend to have to start over from the bottom again.
Aquarius: Aquarius is a fixed, positive polarity, air sign.
Those people born under the Aquarius sun sign are mainly learning that it’s okay to be different from everyone else. It’s okay to be unique and to express themselves in unique and unusual ways. To do this, they typically will also learn the importance of being stubborn.
Aquarius born natives are here to learn the importance of being practical and yet intellectually creative. They eventually also must learn to withhold judgment. Along with their intellectual creativity, there is a need to be curious and to figure out what makes things or even other people tick.
Many people born under this sign are also going to spend a good deal of time learning to focus on the greater good of the world. Humanitarian or volunteer efforts would not be uncommon. Despite this, Aquarius is not here to master emotions. In fact, most must learn to avoid becoming emotionally attached to others as well as learn when to move on and find something else to put their curiosity and attention into.
Pisces: Pisces is a mutable, negative polarity, a water sign.
The most important lesson for people born under the sun sign Pisces is to learn how to effectively deal with guilt. These individuals have to learn not to feel guilty about everything that goes wrong and, more importantly, not to use excessive guilt tripping with others.
Pisces people also have to learn not to let fear hold them back. Many will find themselves working on overcoming some variation of paranoia in their life. Once they learn to blend in and trust others they typically find that they have to deal less with fears.
Like all the water signs, Pisces must learn how to handle their emotions constructively. It’s important for them to master their emotional nature with others and to trust both their empathy and intuitive ability.
Interestingly, most Pisces come into the physical world to learn to combine the spiritual with the physical. Flexibility in their beliefs and who they align themselves with is an important part of their growth process.